John G. Miller, in the November 28-December 5, 2016 issue of Time Magazine wrote: When we choose to hold ourselves accountable, we’re more likely to be happier and successful in work and in our relationships. …Taking ownership for your actions and reactions lets you avoid anger, cynicism, envy and frustration and instead focus on positive emotions and healthy living. 
All of us long to do our best and be our best selves. If what Miller has said is true, then there must be something to gain from owning up to our shortcomings. So, how do we go about holding ourselves accountable at home, at work, or in our social circles? Here are a dozen ideas to help us start:
- Be honest with yourself
- Don’t shift blame
- Apologize if necessary
- Be humble not haughty
- Pay retribution if that is required
- Learn to laugh at yourself
- Don’t give in to anger
- Resist playing the victim
- Don’t put off doing what needs to be done
- Expect good or bad consequences could follow
- Pray for guidance
- Contribute to solving the problem
We all want to feel successful and happy throughout our lives. Why not embrace accountability as a positive step that moves us in that direction? And, why not begin to set the example in our homes so our children learn the benefits of personal accountability at a young age? Sounds like a win-win to me. Smiles might follow.
Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
